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Friday, 21 November 2008

Lapthorne family to scatter flowers for Britt

11/10/2008 2:23:00 PM.  | AAP

Britt Lapthorne's "broken" family will scatter flowers near where her body was found in Croatia, her grieving mother says.

Mr Lapthorne, his wife Elke and son Darren were extremely distressed on receiving the news about 5am (AEDT), they said in a statement released Saturday.

"They (the Lapthorne's) are extremely distressed and devastated by this news and ask that they be allowed privacy today," the family statement said.

"We're just broken people," Elke Lapthorne told Ten News tonight.

"I'm so proud of my daughter Britt and her courage, I'm so proud of my husband Dale and my son Darren."

Ms Lapthorne said Dale, who flew with 25-year-old Darren to Croatia to search for Britt, was "just shattered" at the news.

She said the family, sceptical of Croatian authorities, would also have a second autopsy carried out back in Australia.

"They will be scattering some flowers where Britt was found," she said.

"We will probably have another autopsy conducted here as well."

Ms Lapthorne spent the day in seclusion at the family's Melbourne home, supported by friends and family.

In Croatia, Mr Lapthorne and Darren did not feel able to talk to the media, closing themselves in their hotel room.

When Dale Lapthorne flew to Croatia to search for his missing daughter Britt, he vowed he would not return to Australia without her.

The Melbourne father will fulfill that pledge in the saddest of circumstances with news Saturday that DNA tests confirmed a body found off the coast of Dubrovnik is that of his 21-year-old daughter.

"Elke's extended family and friends are supporting her (Britt's mother) during this horrific time and she will be spending the day in the seclusion of her home."

Mr Lapthorne and his 25-year-old son are still in Dubrovnik, having travelled to the tourist town to find Britt.

Family spokeswoman Jacqueline Pascarl told AAP she believed Britt's father and brother would not return to Melbourne until they could bring Britt home.

"I believe that Dale and Darren have closed themselves into their hotel room and are trying to cope with this horrendous information," she said.

"I know that Darren and Dale will not return without Britt. I have no idea of the timeframe.

"Elke has spoken to me about Britt's love of life, her insight and empathy for others, her sense of humour.

"I hope she will be remembered as a young woman of 21 who was so much more than just the backpacker label ... as a beautiful daughter of a beautiful mother who is grieving tragically."

A spokesman for the hotel where Britt's father and brother were staying said Dale felt sick and was unable to address the press, Croatian news site Javno reported.

Overnight, Dubrovnik deputy police commander Ivan Kukrika told a press conference that DNA analysis had confirmed the identify of the body.

"DNA analysis has been completed in the capital, Zagreb," Kukrika said.

"According to the analysis, the body found in the sea on October 6th belongs to the missing Australian Britt Lapthorne."

Dubrovnik police crime squad chief Nikola Sakic said investigations were continuing into what happened to the Royal Melbourne Institute of Technology (RMIT) student.

Australian Foreign Affairs Minister Stephen Smith Saturday said he had rung Mrs Lapthorne, offering the government's condolences and assurance that consular officials would remain in Dubrovnik for as long as the family wanted their help.

"It is a terrible, terrible nightmare and we express our deepest sympathy to the family today," he told reporters in Newcastle.

"I spoke with Mrs Lapthorne this morning to personally express the sympathy and the condolences, not only on behalf of the government but on behalf of the Australian people.

"... And indicated to Mrs Lapthorne that we would ensure that our consular officials remained in Dubrovnik as long as Mr Lapthorne and his son want us to remain there, and we will assist in every possible way bringing them back to Australia and bringing Britt back to Australia."

The Lapthornes have experienced a roller-coaster ride of emotions since Ms Lapthorne went missing about three weeks ago.

She was last seen at a Dubrovnik nightclub in the early hours of September 18.

The family learnt through the Australian media that a body had been discovered on Monday in a bay not far from the town centre where Britt was last seen.

Croatian police had initially said the body - discovered by a local fisherman - was unlikely to be Britt because it was too badly decomposed.

Then Friday, a detective assigned to the case from Zagreb told the family media reports that the remains were those of a young, petite, blonde female were incorrect.

The family has critical of the Australian government, Australian Federal Police and Croatian police for what they said was lack of support and urgency.

Friday, Mrs Lapthorne's frustration was evident when she spoke to media.

"I'm losing hope. There are not highs anymore, only lows. It's a roller-coaster ride going down, down, down all the time," she said.

She said the Australian government was starting to take the case seriously, albeit too late, but she was still sceptical about Croatian authorities.

"I'm just hoping the authorities over there are not using Britt or this body and will identify it as Britt just so they can close the case over there. That's how it feels at the moment."

Saturday's family statement thanked the Australian public and media for their support.

"Dale and Elke, along with their son, Darren, wish to thank all Australians and particularly the media - who have provided such enormous support and determination in their efforts to assist in the search for Britt," it said.

Victorian Premier John Brumby said he hoped Saturday's news brought closure for the family.

"I can only extend my heartfelt sympathies to the Lapthorne family. I think they've shown extraordinary courage and it's unimaginable how difficult this is for the family," he said.

COMMENTS

Saturday, 11 October 2008

The Lapthorne family have asked for privacy.I must say I feel so stongly for them my feelings are such that I am in tears as I write this. I do not know how they can now wait to find out what happened.

Posted by: Barry Rogers, Gosford

 

Saturday, 11 October 2008

Pull yourself together there Barry, for whilst I imagine most people would have strong feelings on Britt having been killed, there are thousands of other unfortunates who have met very undesirable death and horrendous injury, thousands daily and most of whom would never have had the opportunity to live the life that Britt has, to have gone to Uni and started travelling, and as for finding out what happened, she has been killed and just trying to find out any detail would just hurt more.

Posted by: Neville Simms, Sydney

Saturday, 11 October 2008

Gee Neville, it must be nice to be so insensitive! I hardly think that it is an appropriate time to be so blunt and cold. I hope you never have to get that phone call from The Dept of Foreign Affairs in regards to a loved one. Maybe you could think before you open up next time.

Posted by: Mark B, Rose Bay

Saturday, 11 October 2008

so Neville, should we just let the person(s) who did this to her get away? Do we just turn a blind eye to all that has occurred? Wouldn't it be in the family's interest to have closure, to potentially find out who and why the person did that to their daughter? Wouldn't it hurt more if the family never had the chance to find out who did that to their daughter? Absolute pathetic and ridiculous comment.

Posted by: alan truong, bankstown

 

Saturday, 11 October 2008

the media have alot to answer for in this case, they have handled it badly. no thought for what the family was going through. at least they are able to bring her home. lots don't get that chance. It will be a long time before this family will ever recover from this. media leave them alone.

Posted by: Belinda Hummie, New lambton

 

Saturday, 11 October 2008

Australian Foreign Affairs Minister Stephen Smith is one of the worst ministers we have had in this portfolio. He ran to Singapore when the ABC reporter was caught for buying drugs from a Singapore Policeman. And then he sends fools to support this poor family at such a terrible time in their lives. And if it was not fpr the press it would have been brushed under the carpet. Smacks of Baby Overboard to me Australian Foreign Affairs Minister Stephen Smith. Where is Downer all is forgiven.

Posted by: Andy Mac, HK

 

Saturday, 11 October 2008

No doubt the Lapthorne case is tragic.However we should consider the possibility that it was accidental.Maybe Britt left the nightclub intoxicated and simply slipped into the ocean and drowned.Perhaps we should wait for the autopsy and examine the facts.

Posted by: Lance Freestone,

 

Saturday, 11 October 2008

Well Mark, I'll leave your standards for insensitivity to you and I'kll stick with "for whilst I imagine most people would have strong feelings on Britt having been killed" and I do not exclude myself either as I also do not for victims everywhere, and Alan taking "and just trying to find out any detail would just hurt more." as it seems you have is presuming at a new level, and I can only hope that those responsible for the crime are found by the Croation police and subjected to justice

Posted by: Neville Simms, Sydney

 

Saturday, 11 October 2008

Neville - are you for real? The news of the finding of Britt Lapthorpe's body isn't even 24 hours old and you have the ability to put forth such rubbish. You obviously don't have children or if you do you would have to be the most insensitive parent I have come across. Pull your head in for a moment and think of this individual's Mother, Father and Brother. As a parent of 2 children myself I can't imagine the grief, sorrow and loss this family is experiencing right now. God bless them all.

Posted by: Dwayne Siteman, Wattle Grove

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Yes, good point that Lancer for we do not yet know how she met her death and do not know whether it was a reporting error or not but on a telecast news there was a comment that the Lapthornes would seek a second autopsie on the remains return - if true, is it really necessary for closure or just likely to cause more pain and for them and then who pays for that, good old general revenue fed by taxpayers would it be?

Posted by: Neville Simms, Sydney

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Dwayne I'm just as real as you may be and though having family just like you assert I'm not about to make comment on your insensitivity, your accusation of my lack of it based on my comment to Barry which also made reference to the many global victims, and so how do you feel Dwayne about all those who suffer and we never get to hear the names of, and yes I hope everybody feels for them just as much as they would for Britt, and so you pull your head in a little further Dwayne.

Posted by: Neville Simms, Sydney

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

I dedicate this song to Britt http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=yZpvFyXg88Q RIP :~(

Posted by: Merk Being, Melbourne

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

I do appreciate the shock and feelings that people are experiencing in relation to Britt's dissapearance and then tragic death, but I certainly also appreciate Neville's comments, as there truly are many, many young women that are currently suffering just as much or more than Britt did. I think it is a bigger human tragedy that we easily feel for the pretty/blonde/young/Australian victims rather than other victims that don't fit those criteria. Let's feel and grieve for them all.

Posted by: Geoff Longhurst, Sutherland

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Neville unfortunately is suffering from foot and mouth and didn't even read Barry's comment appropriately-this is a tragic set of circumstances and unfortunately people with such insensitivity to this horrific situation really need to think before they comment and that also goes for it being perhaps accidental-it's all speculation at this stage-the body was so badly decomposed that it will perhaps make that impossible to ever know what may have occurred unless you have some very dedicated and knowledgeable forensic expert to reveal what actually happened however with past results in this country that perhaps may be difficult and expecting someone in Croatia to do it is asking perhaps too much.The family do need to know what happened and hopefully they will be provided with answers.If it wasn't for the family's continual efforts nothing would have been achieved

Posted by: RS ****, Sydney

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Dwayne, and Nevile, everyone grieves in their own way. some people will want to know how their loved ones died. others will not. some may want every little detail, the lapthorpe's have decided to get another autopsy when brit's body gets to australia, that is their choice. This is there way of dealing with their loss. the need to know everything. others like Neville, dont want to know everything about how or what happened. they just want to grieve, they have their loved one back,

Posted by: Belinda Hummie, New lambton

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

con't : they want to bury their child/loved one and move on. Neville, Barry has every right to cry just like you have the right to to say what you did, we all grieve differently, we all feel differently. all of us have felt something towards this incident due to the media's handling/hounding of the matter. Lets hope she can rest in peace soon and that the family can get on with their grieving.

Posted by: Belinda Hummie, New lambton

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Belinda, I've got no qualms about Barry shedding a tear or two per se, and christ I've even been an emotional mess myself with just saying goodbye or the thought of it to beloved pets, but as Geoff Longhurst has pointed out, should it be so just because of a pretty blonde Australian, whatever the cause, it being tragic and what of a Pakistan village where they did not know how many died because they were still collecting body parts into plastic bags!

Posted by: Neville Simms, Sydney

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Yes Neville i fully understand what you are saying. but it can be so for her, as it is for the young couple who died in nepal, and for those in pakistan. people get affect by different things. and as i said before the media have really gone after this story big time, not letting the lapthorpes have a break or the lapthorpes have been to the media. it is all over the internet and on the news all day everyday. you cannot get away from it, so of course it is going to affect people.

Posted by: Belinda Hummie, New lambton

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Neville stop trying to defend your pathetic insensitive comments. To the Lapthorne family may God bless you and help you through these troubled times. Yes Britt was a pretty blonde but before that she is a human being who has been snatched tragically from her family well before her time was due. Let's respect the families wishes and let them grieve in peace.

Posted by: Michael Brown, Carlingford

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Neville, I agree with your views that there are thousand who die every day for numerous reasons under dreadful circumstances. And this too is terrible. It was just the forum you selected for voicing your concerns. When I read your comment all I was thinking was what would Britt's family or any relative/s of hers thought of your reply to Barry. I believe my head is positioned quite well; perhaps you could research another avenue to voice your very legitimate global humanitarian concerns.

Posted by: Dwayne Siteman, Wattle Grove

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

It is about time the Lapthornes buttoned it.They have conducted themselves in a deplorable manner blaming the world for their tragedy.The fact is that Britt was an attracive young girl drunk as a skunk at 4.00 am without a reliable escort in a foreign country.This placed her in a dangerous predicament and whether she met foul play is yet to be determined.Her parents have showed no class and it is clear Croation authorities have little repect for their rantings.Let them investigate in peace.

Posted by: Lance Freestone,

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Perhaps Freestone should "button it". Its amazing how people not involved and with no experience can theorise on what this family should do. The family deserve to know the cause of death and they are entitled to pursue this. Freestone's ranting is about as insensitive as anyone could get. Grub.

Posted by: Geoff Bolton, Lane Cove

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

While Dale Lapthorne uses his CSI knowledge maybe he should consider that perhaps Britts limbs are missing due to propeller damage from boats in the harbour.Maybe Britt went for a early morning swim.Who knows? If Lapthorne shut his mouth just maybe the local police would be more forthcoming.It is also possible Lapthorne's constant raving may be hindering lines of enquiry that police do not wish to elaborate.This bloke couldnt keep a secret.He can however find a microphone when he wants to.

Posted by: Lance Freestone,

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

In Australia vital infothat could have stopped nearly a dozen backpackers being tortured and killed in our national parks, was overllooked by busy police. it took years to catch the guy responsible. all the backpackers killed in a backpacker fire was another incident. They have never found the body of the NT british backpacker abduction and we are not really sure if they put the right person away. Sometimes bad people choose backpackers because they hope they have time to get away with it.

Posted by: Jasmine Star, Melbourne

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Some media say decomposition is not possible given how warm the water is just there, but in fact it is very cold water that hinders decomp. here in australia it is expected sharks and such would have eaten into bodies, or torn off legs that had been in the water long time. Not sure for Croatia. Police there do not have NCI TV resources and may not necessarily be able to tell if legs were removed in what way. Their country is recovering from war. our country took yaers to stop Ivan kill backps.

Posted by: Jasmine Star, Melbourne

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Why doesn't someone ask who was the person who died in very similar circumstances in Croatia recently. the police then also said it could not have been the person missing but retracted their statement later. How many more tourists have been killed in this area in the last 12 months?

Posted by: mary james, sydney

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

I was trying to find a website to give my condolences to the Lapthorne family but i can't... RIP Britt. I am very saddened that you have left the world so soon. You had much more to do and see. I don't believe the Croatian Police did as much as they could. There are too many faults for it to be a coincidence. I hope the Lapthorne's do receive the privacy to mourn their daughters tragic death.

Posted by: Kayla Barley, Frankston

 

Sunday, 12 October 2008

Let me see Bolts what your opinion would be if a Croation national was missing in AUST.The parents come to Aust and accuse the police of not doing anything ,falsifying DNA results and lambasting all and sundry.You would be the first to scream go home.

Posted by: Lance Freestone,

 
 

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